Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 1 April 1916
Loughnavalley for me. It is
dear and good of you but
I hope you won’t be putt-
ing yourself about on my account. Y
ou must be getting to be a
great walker when you can
do that walk every day without
being tired. How is the poor
ankle getting on? I suppose well
or you wouldn't be able to
walk so well. Give my
love to all and with
fondest and most enduring
love to my dearest
and best girl
Always your loving & devoted
James 39 Belgrave Square,
Rathmines,
Dublin.
1st April 1916 My dearest darling May,
I hadn’t the least
expectation of getting a letter from
you and so I was all the more delighted
to have it. I guessed the last few days
that you probably had to do your own post-
and for that reason I didn’t think you’d
write yesterday. I know very well it is awfully
good of you to write to me so often and I
had it on the tip of my pen to say so yesterday
but I was interrupted as I am very frequently
and forgot it afterwards. About the
race if it is a choice for me between seeing 2 you at the races and seeing you in town
I prefer the latter of course but I was hoping
that I might have both pleasures. If however
I can only have one of the two, I plump for
you coming up for a few days rather than
seeing you for an hour or two in a crowd
at Mullingar. I have been talking the matter
over with my mother and she will leave it
to yourself when you come up. Nora and
Moll will probably be going away this
day week for about three weeks and will
be back shortly after Easter and perhaps
you would like to have either of them here
at the time. They would be useful to you
if you were buying things or anything of
that sort and besides you will probably get
tired of my dull company after a while and might like for a change to have someone
younger than my mother to speak to. It
will be an awful disappointment to me not
to be able to see you until Easter if you
decide not to come up before then but I
suppose it can’t be helped. I hope your
mother won’t be vexed at me for dragging
you away from home during the spring hurry. I’m
sure you’ll all be very busy now for the
next couple of months for things look now as if the
spring was at last starting in earnest. The last
few days have been perfect here and today is
like a Summer day. Hadn’t I the devil’s own
luck not to go down this weekend instead of
last. It would have been so pleasant to be
rambling about with my own dear girl, but I
can’t complain even so for I had her all
to myself in the house if I couldn’t go outside 3 and what more could I want. In any case
I expect to have a lovely time at Easter when
I shall probably be free for at least a week
and of course I’m burning for it to be here now.
I hope you will be extra sweet and nice and
good to me then and if you do I’ll bring you
an extra large Easter egg so now be a “dood
ittle dirl” and you’ll see what you’ll get. I’m
afraid I have no pleasant news of any sort to
tell you. My chief, Gallagher, is going off to
London on Monday morning and although he pressed
me again to accompany him I declined so your
poor little man is safe for the present. I don’t envy
him his job especially as they have had another
Zeppelin raid in England and in any case he will
have a lot of very troublesome and exacting work to
get through which I know very well without blowing
horns that I could handle better myself as I am
much more familiar with the particular job being
dealt with. I don’t expect a letter tomorrow so
I hope, love, that you won’t give yourself the
This is from a series of letters written between James Finn and his fiancée Mary (May) Fay. They became engaged in January 1916 and married in June. He lived in Dublin, she in Westmeath; he was 20 years older than her at 39 and had become acquainted with her during his regular visits to his relative Mrs Mary Seery, her neighbour. Throughout the series their relationship develops from the first somewhat tentative letters. They were not to be married long: in 1919 he fell ill with the great flu epidemic, it led to heart damage and he died in 1922 as she was expecting their fourth child. She held on to his letters as her reminder of him. Despite many offers and her difficult finances she never married again. She took in lodgers and trained (and practised) as a midwife, chiropodist, and public health nurse while raising her children. She proved to be an excellent entrepreneur, charmed bank managers into giving her loans (against the norm of the time) and bought properties one after another, many of which were broken up into flats. James Finn was a civil servant, working in the National Health Service Commission on Mount Street. Family history says that he was advising on the restructuring of the civil service as part of setting up the new government in 1922 and that eminent figures in that project were visiting him in his sick bed so that they could consult with him. Neither May nor James were politically active, although like many in the Civil Service, James learned Irish and as can be read in the letters after Easter, he knew many who more caught up in the Easter Rising. One can sense their shifting sympathies in the letters. James' boss Gallagher is leaving for London the next Monday, which he declined, there have been Zeppelin raids in England, the weather is balmy.
- James Finn
- May Fay
- 1916-04-01
- Personal Relations
How to cite
Letters 1916, published by the Austrian Centre for Digital Humanities, Vienna, 2026 (https://letters1916static.github.io/letters1916-static/item__5712.html)
- Place
- 39 Belgrave Square, Rathmines, Dublin
- Mentioned in
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 29 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 22 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 2 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 15 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 1 April 1916
- Place
- Togherstown, Ballinea, Westmeath, Ireland
- Mentioned in
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 16 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 14 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 January 1916
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 27th May 1916
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 15 April 1916
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 10 May 1916
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 27th May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 30 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, [1916]
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 23 January 1916
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- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 25 January 1916
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- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 21 February 1916
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- Card from May Fay to James Finn, 6 March 1916
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- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 15 March 1916
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 30 March 1916
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