Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 11 March 1916
in day out without little
quarrels (I suppose even you and I
will quarrel sometimes â I know I
have a rather sullen temper) but
I think you are both too sweetâ
tempered to be out for very long. With
Godâs blessing we will all live happy
and contented together and when
I get out of temper, I hope I will always
think of the sweet trustfulness and
confidence so freely shown to me by the
dear girl who gave herself to me in
the first flower of her youth and
beauty. Now that may sound a
bit high flowing but it is all, my
darling, true and sincere and
heartfelt. Glad to hear that
Christy is doing so well.
Give my regards to your
mother, Nano and all.
I send you a thousand kisses
and warmest and most
heartfelt love.
Yours for ever & ever
James NATIONAL HEALTH COMMISSION (IRELAND), PEMBROKE HOUSE, UPPER MOUNT STREET, DUBLIN. 11th March,1916. My ever dearest darling, I was more disgusted and disappointed this
morning than I can explain when I saw from your letter that
you had not received the watch. Hopkins people made it up in a
box in my presence on Thursday and sealed it for dispatch at once
to the post. They wouldnât let me take it myself as they assured me
that it would go off without delay. This was at 3 oâclock and I
canât understand why you should not have got it yesterday morning without
fail especially as it was registered. I trust however it has turned up
this morning. I was so anxious yesterday that there should be no hitch
that when I got your letter saying you had been invited to Mary Kellyâs
I called up OâLeary, the manager, on the telephone and questioned him
closely as to whether the watch had certainly gone off all right on
Thursday. I am very much annoyed over it, especially as I wanted to
give you the pleasure of the surprise in getting it a day sooner than you
had expected. I hope I may have a note from you in the morning to say
that it arrived all right. You say that you are anxious to have the 2 watch for a reason that I can guess. Well you can understand how anxious
I am that you should have it for the very same reason, that I love
my dearest girl above and far beyond anything else in this world. Iâm not
ashamed to say that to you although you seem to be shy of saying the same.
Still I hope that it is true although you donât say it. Thanks, love for the
kisses. You wouldnât ask âwho is good in the holy season to send themâ. I know
very well that my dear sweet girl is always good so that I hope you wonât
expect me to take too seriously the references to loaded consciences and
sin and all the rest of it. I imagine the priest must have a job to
keep from laughing sometimes when he hears your âsinsâ. I was very much amused to hear about the rush of marriages
in Mitchelstown. I donât imagine our case would have been so bad if
we had suddenly taken the sweet madness of getting married last week.
Anyhow the hurry and little difficulties of that sort add to the pleasant
romance and the dear happiness of carrying off your own little wife
almost by main force and marrying her out of hand. The more I think
of it, the more Iâm sorry I didnât do it so thereâs no use your trying
to frighten me by horrible examples from Mitchelstown. I taxed my mother
with what you told me about Father Moran and she only laughed so I
donât think she is inclined to be too downhearted over our marriage. I feel
quite sure that you and she will get on famously and will grow to like
each other more the more you see of each other. Of course itâs not always easy
Letter from James Finn (1877-1922) to May Fay (1897-1976) concerning the watch James had ordered from Hopkins for Fay and their upcoming marriage. James Finn was a civil servant, working in the National Health Service Commission on Mount Street. While neither James nor May were politically active their letters provide a very unique insight into the affairs of Easter Week and its aftermath. James died in 1922 as a result of the flu epidemic, May was pregnant with their fourth child at the time.May Fay became engaged to James Finn in January 1916. Despite the twenty year age gap their letters show a very personal and private insight into courting in early 20th century Ireland. She held on to his letters as her reminder of him. May never remarried and focused her attention instead on her businesses in order to provide for their children.
- James Finn
- May Fay
- 1916-03-11
- Personal Relations
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- Place
- National Health Insurance Commission, Pembroke House, Upper Mount Street, Dublin, Irelans
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- Place
- Togherstown, Ballinea, Westmeath, Ireland
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