Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 February 1916
Clara, T would have gone further only the big man was
charmed with the child. I
am sure Tim did not half
like being called a child.
I have no other news so I will
say good bye with my very
best love. It won’t be long now
until you are down. I hope
this weather will continue,
I feel this day doing me good. Warmest love to dear
James from his loving
big May Togherstown
Ballinea Feb 19 1916 My dearest James, I was very glad
to get your letter this morning
early in comparison with
other mornings as Mother,
Daddy & Nano & Mrs Seery
were at mass. don’t think 2 by that I am losing my bit
of religion for I had to stay
at home to mind my brother
that’s the way I’ll be staying at
home to mind somebody
else very soon. Who is that
unfortunate somebody? While
I talk of religion Nora was
inquiring to Mrs S. about
a prayer book she lost perhaps
you would have it in the pocket
of your over coat I might have
had it the first Sunday I was
up It was your Mother’s I had
the last Sunday I hope she will get
it, rather soon to blacken my
character you know. This is a glorious day real spring
not one about the place all gone
to a ploughing match Joe Finn
is taking part he was all excited
had his boots polished, nothing else
he expects to win but if he doesn’t
he has lost his days hire & 2/6 fee
that will be awful I hope he’ll get
something anyway. Christy is
selling cattle to day, he is gone
off to see Seery’s sold so we don’t
know what has he got or did he
sell at all. 3 I might be in Mullingar next
Sat. I could wait for your train
that will be grand I never told
Mrs Seery when you intended
coming but I will tonight if
she comes up. She (Mrs S) had
the Misses Kelly down on Wed.
Pauline Aggie & Rose, the latter
is going to some job in England
crying how Jim listed etc. he
sold all her rings while he was
with her even the wedding of course
they don’t intend going near
the bride Mrs Kiernan says she
won’t either. This Kerry jobber only 4 JE Finn Esq
39 Belgrave Sq
Rathmines
Dublin
This is from a series of letters written between James Finn and his fiancee Mary (May) Fay. They became engaged in January 1916 and married in June and the letters were written between them during that period. He lived in Dublin, she lived in Westmeath; he was 20 years older than her at 39 and had become acquainted with her during his regular visits to his relative Mrs Mary Seery, her neighbour. He tells how he "had his eye on her" for a long time but waited until she was old enough. Throughout the series of letters you can see how their relationship develops from the first somewhat tentative letters and how her confidence grows. The series is not complete; it is interrupted by visits to each other’s homes and by obviously missing letters. They were not to be married long: in 1919 he fell ill with the great flu epidemic, it led to heart damage and he died in 1922 as she was expecting their fourth child, my father. She held on to his letters as her reminder of him: this explains their survival. Despite many offers and her difficult finances she never married again. She took in lodgers and trained (and practised) as a midwife, chiropodist, and public health nurse while raising her children. She proved to be an excellent entrepreneur, charmed bank managers into giving her loans (against the norm of the time) and bought properties one after another, many of which were broken up into flats, so that she ended up quite comfortable off! James Finn was a civil servant, working in the National Health Service Commission on Mount Street. Family history says that he was advising on the restructuring of the civil service as part of setting up the new government in 1922 and that eminent figures in that project were visiting him in his sick bed so that they could consult with him, trying to demand he be carried in to meetings. Neither May nor James were politically active though, like many in the Civil Service, James was obviously somewhat activated, learning Irish, probably Gaelic League, and as can be read in the letters after Easter, he knew many who more caught up in it. One can sense their shifting sympathies in the letters. The letter refers to spring weather, Tim and their latest plan to see each other.
- May Fay
- James Finn
- 1916-02-19
- Personal Relations
How to cite
Letters 1916, published by the Austrian Centre for Digital Humanities, Vienna, 2026 (https://letters1916static.github.io/letters1916-static/item__5550.html)
- Place
- Rathmines, Dublin
- Mentioned in
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 27 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 22 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 18 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 23 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 26 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 27 January, 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, early February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn,14 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 23 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 25 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 4 March 1916
- Card from May Fay to James Finn, 6 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 March 1916
- Letter Card from May Fay to James Finn, 9 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 9 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 14 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 15 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 21 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 23 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 23 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 24 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 4 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 14 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 16 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 10 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 11 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 16 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 19 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 22 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 20 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 22 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 23 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 29 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 31 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 1 June 1916
- Place
- Togherstown, Co Westmeath
- Mentioned in
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 11 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 February 1916
- Mentioned in
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 27th May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 30 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, [1916]
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 29 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 1 June 1916.
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 1 June 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 16 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 14 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 22 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 21 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 23 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn [24] January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 25 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 27 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 20 Feb 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 21 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 22 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 6 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 8 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 11 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 22 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 29 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 2 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 18 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 23 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 26th May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 26 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 27 January, 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 9 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, early February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 11 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn,14 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 15 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 23 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 24 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 25 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 4 March 1916
- Card from May Fay to James Finn, 6 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 March 1916
- Letter Card from May Fay to James Finn, 9 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 9 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 14 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 15 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 21 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 23 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 23 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 24 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 29 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 30 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 30 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 31 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 31 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 1 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 3 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 4 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 5 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 6 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 12 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 12 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 14 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 15 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 16 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, c. 30 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 3 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 8 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 10 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 10 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 11 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 16 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 19 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 22 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 20 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 22 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 23 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 29 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 31 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 1 June 1916
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- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 27th May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 30 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, [1916]
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 29 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 1 June 1916.
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 1 June 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 16 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 14 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 22 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 21 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 23 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn [24] January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 25 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 27 January 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 20 Feb 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 21 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 22 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 6 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 8 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 11 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 22 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 29 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 2 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 18 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 23 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 26th May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 26 January 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 27 January, 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 9 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, early February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 11 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn,14 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 15 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 23 February 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 24 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 25 February 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 4 March 1916
- Card from May Fay to James Finn, 6 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 March 1916
- Letter Card from May Fay to James Finn, 9 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 9 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 14 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 15 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 21 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 23 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 23 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 24 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 29 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 30 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 30 March 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 31 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 31 March 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 1 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 3 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 4 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 5 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 6 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 12 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 12 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 13 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 14 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 15 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 16 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 19 April 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 19 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, c. 30 April 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 3 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn, 7 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 8 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay, 10 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 10 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 11 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 16 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 19 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 22 May 1916
- Letter from James Finn to May Fay 20 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 22 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 23 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 29 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 31 May 1916
- Letter from May Fay to James Finn 1 June 1916