Letter from Wilfrid Spender to Lillian Spender, 4 April 1916
at Mrs Stewarts ! I can imagine your indigna
tion but not for the life of me who Elsie is.
I believe the lady on whom there were
designs — not on the part of the b w — was
Lady Stewart Bam, so perhaps you were skating
on rather thin ice without knowing it, but as
usual you got over it splendidly. The b w wanted you very badly
last night. Very wakeful for a change &
seemed to be in unspeakable black — never
quite felt the likes before rather depressing 2 It was probably the result of black coffee anyhow
b w wanted a p r badly except that she inconven-
iently popped up whenever the b w got drowsy. I had a piece of dissipation last night
going to our travelling concert group's perform-
ance at another village. Really they were
wonderful very nearly equal to the Ulster singers
& the tone was so good — nothing vulgar
but real good music — tho too little of the
Irish tunes. A very pretty song on the Origin of
Ireland was entirely spoilt by an added verse
of Singhton's on the origin of Germany. To add
to a hymn tune a rather ribald verse showed such
a complete lack of appreciation of the Irish nature
that one could barely keep patience — Result this song quite one of the best of the evening fell 3
absolutely flat. I felt sorry for S but glad in
a way that he should be made to see a little
of the Ulster feeling. All references to Ulster were
studiously omitted — a pity when one considers that
they visit other Divisions. I heard a thing today about the men's
feelings to Sir Edward which was a most
painful shock. Some think that having got
them to enlist he is fr takes no more
interest in them. Others that he is fright-
ened to come out ! It seems incredible
& I am writing to Craig tomorrow about it !
Mob thoughts really are unfathomable. This
shows to me the immense importance of
your work. Please rub in the Carson touch
with the wounded. I will get Craig to send think 4
out the best course. Russell has just left with some very
nice remarks. He wants me to look him up
in town if I get there but this is problemati-
cal for leave again looks visionary. Perhaps "Elsie" is Mrs Costello, wife of
Major Costello V C. a nice man And a RC a
relation of Mab's — Niece — I have seen her once
& why she should call me Wilfrid passes the
cheek of women. I'm glad you restrained yourself
in what you said. It is best tactically to do as
you did & get dangerously polite with such people.
They hate your remaining a Lady when they have
failed to do so. No more as I have to take papers to
the G including some tricky ones left as a
legacy by R Best love feeling better after a
long ride Your bw Wilfrid BS.
Letter from Sir Wilfrid Spender (1876 - 1960) to his wife, Lillian (1880-1968). Spender was a member of the British Army until 1913 when controversy surrounding his signature of the Ulster Solemn League and Covenant resulted in his resignation. Spender was called up for military service in 1914 and from 1915 served in the 36th (Ulster) Division. Throughout the war, Spender wrote a collection of letters to his wife Lady Lillian Spender. The letters date mainly from 1915 to 1918, when Sir Wilfrid was serving in France. The letters concern politics, the Irish question, personal life, and Wilfrid's experience of the Great War."
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